Loneliness

Loneliness
is the silent killer
to so many....

Hold on to your friends
and let them know
how much you care....

Sometimes

our heart feels hurt and we feel lost ,

but with friends like you

the burdens feel less...

thats what friendship is...

sharing the good with the bad.

Be My Angel, Mazzy Star,

They say it's me
That makes you do things
You might not have done
If I was away

And that's it's me
That likes to talk to you
And watches you
As you walk away



Don't say it's useless
Don't say forget it
Don't bring me wishes
Of silly dreams

Just say it's all
From too much freedom
Too many fingers
And to anything

They say it's you
who watches the wind
And brings the night
into the day

If you won't notice
How can I show you
All of you worries
Have all gone away

Don't leave me lonely
Don't leave me unhappy
Just bring me up
into your fate

If you don't need me
Then don't deceive me
Letting my freedom turn
into stone

Just be my angel
If you love me
Be my angel
In the night
Be my angel
Cause you need me
Be my angel
And treat me right

Don't say you love me
If you don't need me
Don't send me roses
On your behalf
Just take me down
And walk through your river
Down the middle
And make it last

Holding on to you
Holding on to me
Holding on tight
Til my love is crossed
Don't say it's useless
And don't say forget it
You are my spirit
Now you are gone

Maybe.......

Maybe It's true

that we don't know what we have until we lose it.

But It's also true

that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives.....

Whoever listens to the story of the Goddess

during the great Puja,

that is organised in the winters,

succeeds in overcoming all obstacles,

and is blessed wealth and progeny......

Eleven Hints for Life (Saleem)

"Eleven Hints for Life"

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.
But what is more painful is to love someone and never
find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who
means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was
never meant to be and you just have to let go.



3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a
porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away
feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose
it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been
missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an
hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it
takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth,
even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you
smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day
seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,
be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and
one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it
hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck
a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may
heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best
of everything they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with
a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone
around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,
you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Life comes with no guarantee
no time out, no second chances,
you just have to live life to the fullest;
laugh as much as you can;
spend all your money
tell someone what they mean to you,
tell someone off , speak out,

Our Life

Good people are like lights. They shines in the dark.
The darkness it gets, the brighter they shine.
They do not lose their brightness by forsaking its good purpose.
Let nothing overwhelm your light!
Keep on shinning and inspiring others...
(Sreenivas)

You can come to truth only when you are absolutely nude; when you have discarded all clothes, all philosophies, all theologies, all religions; when you have dropped all that has been given to you; when you come empty-handed, not knowing in any way. When you come with knowledge you come already corrupted. When you come in innocence, knowing that you don’t know, then the doors are open — then you will be able to know. Only that person who has no knowledge is capable of knowing.
(Prashant Thakur)

from Namadji

BROWN EYES - People with brown eyes last the longest in relationships. They are very satisfying and love to please and can EXCEED your pleasure standards. If you repost this if you have brown eyes you will have the best kiss and Sex sometime in the next 5 days.

BLUE EYES - People with blue eyes are very attractive, adorable, loves to make new friends. Will do anything for that special person. Kind, and polite. Can make anyone laugh or cheer them up. Can be very distant, Loves to please the one they care for or love, repost this if you have blue eyes, and you will find the one that you are meant to be with within the next 7 days if you havent in the last 5 days.

GREEN EYES - People with green eyes have the most passion put into relationships, they have long lasting relationships. People with green eyes are also the most horny. They long for the touch of another. You will meet the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with if you havent already, if you repost this.

HAZEL EYES - People with hazel eyes have the most unusual relationships. They're awesome at diversity and trying new things and very rarely will say no to ANY challenge. If you have hazel eyes and repost this you will learn your new favorite technique of catching someone special if you havent already, if you repost this.

What are u?

Dare You ??

The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These person have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen (Elisabeth Kehler Ron)






It's amazing what life changing things and just life does to u and why u meet and who comes in and out of ur life....if that makes since ..... (Pamela Childers)

It is amazing when life twist you and turns you and you finally come to the peace that passes understanding... (Sally)

It is an aweful fact of life how those who suffer the least are usually most physically attractive ... (Daniel Knodel)

To experience the bad requires the appreciation of the good (Ronald Valkenburg)

Excelente, yo lo he vivido en carne propia y al final la evolucion y el crecimiento espiritual es la mayor hermosura!! (Maribel Diaz Ruiz)

Trust..... (between me, you, all of us)

Trust is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion. Suspicion generates to anger. Anger causes enmity, and enmity may result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call.

She repeated "PUB". There was silence, still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she heard a lady's voice said "Oh, so, this is PUB. Sorry. I got the number from my husband's pocket. But I don't know whose number it is"......

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple when the telephone operator answer with just "Hello" instead of "PUB"........

Sometimes..... (Terkadang)

Sometimes you gotta runaway ....
So you can see who will run after you.
(Terkadang..... kita harus pergi dan berlalu,
agar kita paham, siapa yang bakal mengikuti atau mencari tahu....)

Sometimes you gotta talk quieter....
Just to see who's listening.
(Terkadang.... kita harus berbicara lebih pelan,
agar kita tahu, siapa yang masih mendengarkan......)

Sometimes you gotta step up in a fight....
Just to see who's by your side.
(Terkadang..... kita harus dalam posisi siaga dan waspada untuk sebuah pertentangan,
agar kita tahu, siapa yang sepakat dengan kita......)

Sometimes you gotta make a wrong decision.....
To see who's there to fix it.
(Terkadang.... kita harus mengambil sebuah keputusan yang menyimpang atau keliru,
agar kita tahu, siapa yang bakal menyadari dan membenahinya.....)

Sometimes you gotta let go of the one you love.....
Just to see if they love you enough to come back.
(Terkadang..... kita harus pergi sejenak meninggalkan orang yang kita kasihi,
agar kita sadari, apakah mereka juga mengasihi kita, mengharapkan kembali,
dan tetap sama tatkala kita kembali......)

True Love Story

A young couple was very much in love, decided to get married.
Some months before nikkah, the bride had an accident and remained with face completely disfigured.

" I can't marry you, she wrote to her fiance.
... I will stay sharp and uggly forever.

Find yourself another beautiful young woman as you deserve, because i'm not worthy of you ! "

Few days later, she ... received this answer from her fiance :

" Whoever is truly shamfull is me, i thrust in that following to eye disease, the doctor just told me that i will stay blind !

If despite this, you want to accept me, i still want to marry you ! "

They get married at that time, the fiance was totally blind.

They lived 20 years in LOVE, in joy and understanding.

She was his guide and became his eyes and light.

LOVE has guided into the tunnel of darkness.

One day, she became seriously ill and dying, she regretted living him alone in the darkness.

The day she died, he opened his eyes to the astonishment of all.

" I was not blind, he said.
I pretented that i was blind, for distressed her in the thought that i will see her face disfigured.
Now my LOVE based on her ! "

MORAL: TRUE LOVE SEES BEYOND PHYSICAL BEAUTY, BECAUSE TRUE LOVE, IS SEEN WITH THE HEART

The Death

Death is the pinnacle of life.
If you hate death how can you love life.
And that is a great misunderstanding.

(Kematian adalah puncak kehidupan.....
Bila kita membenci kematian, bagaimana kita dapat mensyukuri kehidupan? Inilah kesalahpahaman terbesar yang ada saat ini....)




People who think that they love life always hate death —
and by hating death they become incapable of living.

(Orang-orang yang berkata bahwa mereka mencintai hidup selalu membenci kematian,
dan, dengan membenci kematian mereka menjadi tidak seimbang dalam hidup itu sendiri, ga mampu menjalani hidup dengan mengalir apa adanya....)

The capacity to live, the capacity to live at the maximum,
comes only when you are ready to die,
and ready to die at the maximum.

(Kapasitas untuk hidup, kapasitas untuk hidup secara maksimal, dengan bersungguh-sungguh, hanya bisa terjadi bila kita siap untuk mati, dan siap untuk meninggal dengan maksimal. Maka, hiduplah seolah engkau bakal meninggal esok hari)

It is always proportionate.
If you live in a lukewarm way you will die in a lukewarm way.
If you live intensely, totally, dangerously,
you will also die in a deep orgasm.

(Hidup itu sendiri akan berjalan secara proporsional, bila kita jalani dengan hangat dan pasrah, berusaha keras mewujudkan setiap mimpi dan harapan, segala cita-cita dan cinta... maka kita akan meninggal dengan sepenuh harga diri yang menghargai diri sendiri dan orang lain di sekitar kita, hati yang penuh cinta.....)

My Spesial Wishes for Us (via Janes)

Faith, So that we can believe...

Sunsets, To warm our heart.

Smile, When sadness intrudes....

Comfort, on different days.

Hug, When spirit sag.

Love, To complete our life....

Courage, To know ourselves.

Friendship, To brighten our being.

Patience, To accept the truth.

Beauty, For our eyes to see...

Laughter, To kiss our lips.

Confidence, for when we doubt.

Rainbow, To follow the clouds.....

All We Have (via Shreenivas)

We have 2 eyes and just 1 tongue,
which means we need to look twice & talk once.

We have 2 ears and just 1 mouth,
so we need to listen more than we talk..

We have 2 hands and 1 stomach,
so we need to work twice as much as we eat..

We have 2 major brain parts left and right and 1 heart,
so we can think twice but love only ONE..

Living a Life That Matters (Thx Lewis)

Ready or not, Someday it will all come to an end....

There will be no more sunrise. No minutes, hours, or days.....

All the things you collected, Whether treasure or forgotten,

Will pass to someone else....

Your wealth, fame, and temporal power,

Will shrivell to irrelevance....

It will no matter what you owned,

Or what you were owed....

Your grudges, resentments, Frustrations, and jealousies,

Will finally disappear....

So, too..... Your hopes, ambitions, plans, and to do lists,

Will expire.....

The wins and losses at once, Seemed so important,

Will fade away......

It won’t matter, Where you came from,

Or on what side of the tracks,

You lived, at the end.....

Life isn’t about finding yourself, Life is about creating yourself.

Trough each day, our goal is.....

To touch one’s heart,

To encourage one’s mind,

And, To inspire one’s soul,

May you continually be blessed,

And, be a blessing to others.......

Thanks God.....

God has not promised me sunshine, that's not the way it's going to be...
But a little rain mixed with God's sunshine and a little pain
Makes me appreciate the good times...
Be Grateful!
Because there's someone else who's worse off than you
Because there's someone else who'd love to be in your shoes

~ Walter_Hawkins

My Friend Suketshah said.....

http://www.wayn.com/waynmessages.html?wci=readmessage&message_key=125663910&s_t=&s_o=desc&s_b=date_sent&f_k=0&f_n=U
10 sept 2011


A woman came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find her 5-year old son waiting for her at the door.

SON: 'Mummy, may I ask you a question?'

MUM: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the woman.

SON: 'Mummy, how much do you make an hour?'

MUM: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the woman said angrily.

SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?'

MUM: 'If you must know, I make R 50 an hour.'

SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.

SON: 'Mummy, may I please borrow R25?'

The mother was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.'

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door..

The woman sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?

After about an hour or so, the woman had calmed down , and started to think:

Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that R25.00 and she really didn't ask for money very often.The woman went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.

'Are you asleep, son?' She asked.

'No Mummy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.

'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the woman. 'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the R25 you asked for.'

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you Mummy!' he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.

The woman saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.

The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his mother.

'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the mother grumbled.

'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied.

'Mummy, I have R50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.'

The mother was crushed. She put his arms around her little son, and she begged for his forgiveness.

It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that R50 worth of your time with someone you love.

If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of hours. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.

Love Hurt (by Suketsah)

I sit alone, no one to talk to
Feeling nothing, nothing but blue

As the tears, slowly run down my face
My heart becomes a lonelier place
The love that kept it safe and sound
Vanished, nowhere to be found

With each passing hour, I feel my heart break
I wish this were only a bad dream, from which I could awake


I am so very sad
I never imagined love could hurt this bad.

Friend is still friend till you know the value of your friendship.....

Making a million friends is not a miracle
the miracle is to make a friend
who will stand by you
when millions are against you......

Some People Hurt By Words & Some By Action…
But The Biggest Hurt I Believe Is That Someone Ignoring You
When You Value Them Bigger Than Anything Else...

Meanings in My Life......

Standing for what you believe in
Regardless of the odds against you,
and the pressure that tears at your resistance,
Means..... COURAGE.





Keeping a smile on your face,
When inside you feel like dying
For the sake of supporting others
Means...... STRENGTH.

Doing more than is expecting
To make another's life more bearable
Without uttering a single complaint
Means....... COMPASSION.

Helping a friend in need
No matter the time or effort
To the best of your ability
Means.......LOYALTY.

Giving more than you have
And expecting nothing
but nothing in return
Means...... SELFLESSNESS.

Holding your head high
And being the best you know you can be
When life seems to fall apart at your feet
Facing each difficulty with the confidence
That time will bring you better tomorrow's
And never give up
Means...... CONFIDENCE

OSCAR WILDE

Friend

Sometimes in life we think we don't need anyone.
But sometimes we don't have anyone when we need.
So don't let your best buddies go ever...

Friend means no asking

Friend means no reasoning

Friend means just believing

&

Friend is that who never believe

in last three alphabets of "Friend"

But Desy,

Friendship never speaks volume

It never demand proof

It never has a happy ending too

Simply because it never ends

when friends are true.....

Everyone hears what you say

Friends listen to what you say

Best friends listen to what you don't say

If you are too scared of what is ahead

And too frightened of what is behind you

Look beside you, because you know

I will always be there

Boy & Girl

Once A Boy And A Girl Decided To Write Down Whatever They Wanted To Change In Each Other.
(Pada suatu waktu, tersebutlah kisah, pasangan kekasih, pria dan wanita, memutuskan untuk menuangkan apa yang paling mereka harapkan akan berubah dari pasangan mereka tersebut ......)



Boy's Eyes Filled With Tears After Reading 7 Pages The Girl Has Written.
(Sang Pria meneteskan air mata setelah membaca 7 halaman yang telah ditulis oleh kekasihnya)

Girl's Eyes Were Filled After Reading One Line The Boy Has Written.
(Sang Wanita bercucuran air mata setelah membaca seuntai kalimat yang ditulis kekasihnya, dan, memang cuma itu satu-satunya, seuntai kalimat yang ditulis oleh kekasihnya)

..."I Just Want To Change Your Surname To Mine"Respect The One Who Loves You,
Because It Is Hard To Live With Your Shadows .....
.......(Aku ingin mengubah nama keluargamu menjadi keluargaku, menghargai orang yang mengasihimu, karena... betapa berat menjadi bayanganmu).

Hmmm.....
Sungguh benar. Berat sekali jika hidup hanya untuk memenuhi harapan dan keinginan orang lain, menjadi apa yang dicita2 kan oleh oranglain, pasangan kita sendiri. Karena kita bakal menjadi bukan diri kita sendiri, hanya diperintah, disuruh, diminta.

Namun....
orang yang berani maju, tampil ke depan, bersedia untuk menjalani hidup, baik suka maupun duka, menerima apa adanya, inilah yang patut diperjuangkan. Mencintai apa adanya.....

Friendship day (via Suketshah)

"Thy friendship oft has made my heart to ache: do be my enemy for friendship's sake."
- William Blake, sent in by Lauren
"Tell me what company thou keepst, and I'll tell thee what thou art."
- Miguel de Cervantes (1547 - 1616) Spanish novelist.

"Have no friends not equal to yourself."
- Confucious (551 - 497 BC) Chinese philosopher.

"Fate chooses your relations, you choose your friends."
- Jacques Delille (1738 - 1813) French poet.

"A Friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of Nature."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803 - 1882) US poet & essayist.

"Keep your friendships in repair."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson (as above)

"A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him I may think aloud."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"The only reward of virtue is virtue; the only way to have a friend is to be one."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Be slow to fall into friendship; but when thou art in, continue firm and constant."
- Socrates, Greek Philosopher

"Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together"
- Woodrow Wilson

"Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friend's success."
- Oscar Wilde

"Those friends thou hast, and their adoption tried,
Grapple them to thy soul with hoops of steel;
But do not dull thy palm with entertainment
Of each new-hatch'd, unfledg'd comrade."
- William Shakespeare

"Friendship with oneself is all-important because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world."
- Eleanor Roosevelt

"If you judge people, you have no time to love them."
- Mother Teresa

"I will speak ill of no man, and speak all the good I know of everybody."
- Benjamin Franklin

"Misfortune shows those who are not really friends."
- Aristotle

"With every friend I love who has been taken into the brown bosom of the earth a part of me has been buried there; but their contribution to my being of happiness, strength and understanding remains to sustain me in an altered world."
- Helen Keller

"What is a friend? A single soul in two bodies."
- Aristotle

"The friendship that can cease has never been real."
- Saint Jerome

"I count myselt in nothing else so happy
As in a soul rememb'ring my good friends."
- William Shakespeare

Best Divorce Letter (via Suketsah)

Dear hubby,

I’m writing you this letter to tell you that I’m leaving you forever.. I’ve been a good woman to you for 7 years & I have nothing to show for it.

These last 2 weeks have been hell..

Your boss called to tell me that you quit your job today & that was the last straw. Last week, you came home & didn’t even notice I had a new haircut, had cooked your favorite meal & even wore a brand new pair of silk dress. You ate in 2 minutes, & went straight to sleep after watching all of your
games. You don’t tell me you love me anymore; you don’t want anything
that connects us as husband & wife. Either you are cheating on me or you
don’t love me anymore; whatever the case, I’m gone.

Your EX-Wife
P.S. Don’t try to find me. Your BROTHER & I are moving away to West Virginia together! Have a great life!
_

FOLLOWING IS THE RESPONSE FROM THE HUSBAND

Dear Ex-Wife
Nothing has made my day more than receiving your letter.

It’s true you & I have been married for 7 years, although a good woman is a far cry from what you’ve been. I watch my games so much because they drown out your constant whining & gripe Too bad that doesn’t work. I DID notice when you got a hair cut last week, but the 1st thing that came to mind was ‘You look just like a boy!’ Since my mother raised me not to say anything
if you can’t say something nice, I didn’t comment. And when you cooked my favorite meal, you must have gotten me confused with MY BROTHER, because I stopped eating pork 7 years ago.. About those new silk dress: I turned away from you because the $49.99 price tag was still on them, & I prayed it was a coincidence that my brother had just borrowed $50 from me that morning.

After all of this, I still loved you & felt we could work it out.. So when I hit the lotto for 10 million dollars, I quit my job & bought us 2 tickets to Jamaica. But when I got home you were gone. Everything happens for a reason, I guess.

I hope you have the fulfilling life you always wanted. My lawyer said that the letter you wrote ensures you won’t get a dime from me. So take care.

Signed,
Your Ex-Husband, Rich As Hell & Free!

P.S. I don’t know if I ever told you this, but my brother Carl was born as
Carla(woman) ……… .I hope that’s not a problem

The Law of Attraction

Each one of us on this earth has it
The ability to lead and inspire

Sometimes our work feels smalls and insignificant....
but remember,
a small ripple can gain momentum
and build a current insurmountable

Begin with one small step
don't let others stand on your way
walk your own path

Some may laugh... so what.
Many will follow.
Don't ever give up

Success
seems to be largely a matter of hanging on
after others have let go

Fear keeps people small
Run towards your fears
Embrace them

On the other side of your greatest fears
lives your greatest life

Get out of the stands
get on the court

Play the game of the life
Take risk
leap, and the net will appear

Be positive,
what you think is what you become

Dream. Dream big.
Feel it, believe it, achieve it.

What ever your dreams are,
go for it !!!
You will inspire others

Extend a hand.
Care.
Be kind.

When someone does good, applaud !!
You will make two people happy.

Be a positive role model
Be the change you want to see the world
Make a difference world

Now is the time to lead out loud !!!!

You are not alone

Just remember, you are not alone
you 've got a friend who cares about you
and, no matter what else change in your life
nothing is going to change that

Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.

When you wake up in the morning
complete the following statement.....
"My purpose is to.... today"

Live with 3 E's :
Energy, Enthusiasm, Empathy
and, 3 F's :
Faith, Family, Friends

Spend more time with people
over the age of 70,
and under the age of six

Dream more while you are awake

Try to make at least three people smile each day

Realize that life is a school,
and you are here to learn,
pass all your tests.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum
that appear and fade away like algebra class,
but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime

Smile and laugh more...
it will keep the energy vampires away

Life is not fair, but it is still good

Life is too short to waste time hating anyone

Make peace with your past,
so it won't mess up the present

No one is in charge of your happiness except you

Because I Love You Without any Reason....

The reason why I love you...
Lady: Why do u like me? Why do u love me?
Man : I can't tell the reason... But I really like u...
Lady: U can't even tell me the reason... How can u say u like me? How can u say u love me?
Man : I really don't know the reason, but I can prove that I love u.
Lady: Proof ? No! I want u to tell me the reason. My friend's boyfriend can tell her why he loves her, but not u!
Man : OK...OK !!! Erm...because u are beautiful, because your voice is sweet, because u are caring, because u are loving, because u are thoughtful, because of your smile, because of your every movements...



Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and became
comma. The Guy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the content :

Dearest,
Because of your sweet voice that I love u...Now can u talk? No! Therefore I cannot love u.
Because of your care and concern then I like u... Now that u cannot show them, therefore I cannot love u.
Because of your smile, because of your every movements that I love u...
Now can u smile? Now can u move? No, therefore I cannot love u...
If love needs a reason, like now, there is no reason for me to love u anymore. Do loves need a reason?
NO! Therefore, I still love u... And love doesn't need a reason...

"When loving someone... never regret what u do... only regret what u didn't do"
If God brings u to it...He will bring u through it...

10 Reason You Are My Friends

10 Reason You Are My Friend


a friend accept you as you are
a friend keep you close at heart
a friend makes a difference in your heart
a friend respect you
a friend value you
a friend believes in you
a friend yearns to stay connected
a friend gives unconditionally
a friend writes just to say HI
a friend waits quietly for you


Thanks for being such a good friend

Love & Friendship

Love knows no gender, no labels, no bounds

Cinta tidak mengenal jenis kelamin, label, atau batasan lainnya.....

rya my friend said : Friends are angels who lift out feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. Temenku berkata: Sahabat adalah malaikat yang membantu kita melangkah bila sayap-sayap kita bermasalah untuk terbang tinggi. A boy makes his girl jealous of other beautiful girls. A gentleman makes other beautiful girls jealous of his girl. Seorang pria membuat gadisnya cemburu pada wanita cantik lainnya. Seorang gentleman / pria sejati membuat wanita cantik lainnya cemburu pada gadisnya. Ehm..... benar juga neee. Maka, jadilah pria dan wanita sejati, jangan pernah coba berpura-pura menjadi heroik. Biar semua mengalir apa adanya......

Love is blind...

When he says "Bye"

I say "Ok"

I never ask why.....

When he says "Sorry"

More than saying "Ok", I say "I understand"

He told me "I love you"

I didn't say "I love you too"

but "Thanks for loving me too"

But, one day he admitted.....

He loves someone else.

Guess what I said??

"Go on.....!! Be happy.

I'll let you go.....

Because, if that is the things to make you smile,

I'd rather get hurt.

than to see the sad face

when you are mine.........

Friends

Friends Make Life more beautiful

in many different ways

with smile of warm affection

with words of loving praise

With looks of trust and tenderness

moments of deep sharing

and countless of little gestures,

that reminds you someone's caring

With honesty and tactfullness

in the things they say and do

Yes, friends make life more beautiful

if they are special friends like you !!!

Blessing Me, God.... (3)

Sometimes...
we found that life is not an easy thing
But...
I've always believe in Godk
He always used to people
no matter what sex, religion, country,
political views, or whatever.....

Blessing Me, God.... (2)

On this day, God wants you to know
... that you learn what you do.

If you worry a lot,
then day after day you are learning how to worry even better.
If you think about doing something a lot,
then you are learning how to think about doing.





Every moment you are happy,
you are learning how to be even happier.
Every time you act,
you are learning how to take an action even better.
What is it that you've been learning today?
What is it that you want to learn tomorrow?

Blessing Me, God....

I am powerful and I am loving.
I have much to give to this world.
I am a person of worth.
I deserve love.
I am a capable person.
My life has meaning.
My life is unfolding perfectly.
There is plenty of time.

Wishes...

To make every little thing special is to grant a magical quality to your life.
Once your life becomes charmed in such a way,
whatever blocks you may have experienced in the past
melt in the light of that inner energy pouring from your heart.
From a businessman’s point of view,
this is beautiful, for everything you touch turns to gold.
Further, it helps you to believe in yourself.
In seeing worth all around,
you make your every act an affirmation of your strength.

Untuk membuat setiap hal kecil menjadi istimewa
adalah dengan memberikan kualitas magis dalam hidup Anda.
Di saat hidup menjadi begitu terberkati,
apapun rintangan dan tantangan yang dihadapi di masa lalu
bakal sirna, meleleh dalam sucinya cahaya hati
dan energi yang mengalir dari dalam jiwa.
Dari sudut pandang tiap orang yang selalu berusaha \ pengusaha,
inilah hal terindah, yang akan mengubah tiap hal yang disentuh menjadi emas.
Selanjutnya, hal ini membantu meningkatkan kepercayaan diri.
Dalam menilai berbagai hal di sekeliling kita,
kita akan membuat setiap tindakan yang kita lakukan
sebagai afirmasi bagi dan dari kekuatan dalam diri kita sendiri.....

To all who try to find love (Buat muridku nih, yg terluka karena panah asmara patah seribu)

To all who try to find love. (Bagi mereka yang termehek-mehek mencari cinta).

If you find yourself in love with someone,

and that someone doesn't love you,

Be gentle to yourlself,

there is nothing wrong with you.

Love just didn't choose to rest in that someone's heart.

(Andai kau jatuh cinta, sedang dia kaga mencintaimu...

Hargai dirimu, ga ada yg salah dengan dirimu,

Cinta gak pernah memilih dimana dia bakal berlabuh menambatkan biduknya)

If you find someone in love with you,

and you cann't answer that love,

feel honored that love came by

and called on your door.

but gently refuse the feeling you cannot return,

as love didn't choose to settle in your heart.

(Jika ada orang yang mencintaimu,

sedang kau kaga mencintainya,

Hargai cinta yang datang dan mengetuk pintu hatimu...

katakan bahwa hatimu gak bisa tertambat padanya,

karena cinta itu sendiri tidak memilih berlabuh di hatimu)

If you find your love with someone,

and the love returned,

it still can happen that love chooses to leave.

Do not try to reclaim it,

and do not asses any blame.

Let it go, despite the paint,

there is a reason and meaning of this.

(Bila dikau menemukan tambatan hatimu,

dan cinta saling berbalasan,

masih ada kemungkinan cinta tidak bisa saling bertautan jadi satu rangkaian.

jangan pernah berusaha saling memaksakan

dan menyalahkan satu sama lain.

Biarkan berlalu, karena dibalik setiap peristiwa dan situasi yang ada,

selalu terdapat alasan dan arti dari segalanya)

You cannot choose love by yourself

Love chooses you.

(Dikau takkan pernah bisa memilih cinta,

karena cinta yang bakal memilih mu,

tempat dimana dia akan bernaung dan berlabuh,

menambatkan biduknya)

Being A Mother (Jadi Seorang Ibu)

Somebody said it takes about six weeks to get back to normal after you've had a baby.

That somebody doesn't know that once you're a mother, "normal" is history.

Your life is amazing and fascinating.....

Jika ada yg bilang, bahwa seorang ibu perlu waktu sekitar 6 bulan untuk kembali hidup normal sejak dia pertama kali punya bayi, maka org tsb gak pernah tahu, bahwa sekali kita jadi seorang ibu, "normal" cuma sejarah. Hidup kita bakal menakjubkan dan sungguh mempesona.

Somebody said the hardest part of being a mother is labor and delivery.

That somebody never watched her "baby" get on the bus for the first day of kindergarden.

Jika orang berkata.... bagian paling berat dari jadi seorang ibu adalah saat hamil dan melahirkan, orang itu ga pernah alami saat2 mengawasi bayinya di jalan ato di hari pertama di Taman Kanak-Kanak.

Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so you don't need to tell her.

That somebody isn't a mother. Or on a plane headed for military "boot camp".

Jika ada yg bilang, emakmu tahu bahwa dikau mencintainya, dan ga perlu lagi ngomongin betapa besar cintamu pada dia... Orang ini bukanlah seorang ibu. Atau bukan sedang dalam perjalanan ke camp militer.

Somebody said a mother can stop worrying after her child gets married.

That somebody doesn't know that marriage adds a new sons

or daughter in law to a mother heartstrings.

Jika orang2 bilang... seorang ibu bakal berhenti khawatir saat anaknya menikah. Orang ini ga pernah tahu bahwa pernikahan adalah berarti menambahkan sebuah ikatan emosional lain lagi ke dalam jiwa Sang Bunda......

Prove The Spirit

Don't let others change your life,

Be your own change agent and implement the changes you want.

And if an unexpected change occurs in your life,

find the positive in it.

Rather than wasting your energy and wasting your time,

focus on the positive.

In some cases,

search for the positive.....

There is opportunity in every change.

(Catherine Pulsifer)

Beautiful Quotes, Worth It

Enjoy life,

This is not a rehearsal.

Don't fear pressure

for pressure is what turns rough stones into diamond.

Heal the past, Live the present, Dream the future.

Don't count the days, make the days count.

Don't allow guilt to eat away at your happiness

Accept your mistakes.

It will make you fell much better.

The world is like a mirror.

If you face it smilling, it smiles right back.

Learn to listen.

Opportunity sometimes knocks very softly.

Good times, become good memories

Bad times, become good lessons.

It is not the scenery you miss by going too fast.

I look to the future because that's where I'm going to spend the rest of my life.

Live your life to the fullest......

Call Me Anytime

Call Me Anytime

If one day you feel like crying, call me.....

I don't promise you that I will make you laugh

But I can cry with you

If one day you want to run away

Don't be afraid to call me

I don't promise to ask you to stay

But I can run with you

If one day you don't want to listen to anybody, call me...

I promise to be very quiet

But, If one day you call

And there is no answer....

Come fast to see me

Perhaps I need you

Thank you for always being there for me........

Dear Friends....

To realize the value of ten years, ask a newly divorce couple

(Untuk menyadari betapa berharganya waktu 10 tahun berlalu... tanyalah pada org yang baru bercerai)

To realize the value of four year, ask a graduate

(Untuk menyadari berharganya waktu selama 4 tahun, tanyalah seorang mahasiswa yg baru tamat)

To realize the value of one year, ask a student who has failed a final exam

(Betapa berharganyai waktu yang berlaku selama setahun, tanyalah orang yang baru gagal ujian akhir)

To realize the value of nine month, ask a mother who gave birth to a still born

(Untuk menyadari waktu selama 9 bulan adalah bernilai, tanyalah seorang ibu yang baru melahirkan...)

To realize the value of one month, ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby

(Untuk menyadari berharganya waktu selama sebulan, tanyalah ibu yang baru melahirkan bayi prematur)

To realize the value of one week, ask an editor of a weekly newspaper

(Baru kita pahami betapa bernilainya waktu selama seminggu, tatkala kita tanyain seorang editor suratkabar mingguan)

To realize the value of one hour, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet

(Untuk menghargai waktu satu jam, barangkali kita bisa bertanya pada dua orang kekasih yang saling berjanji untuk berjumpa)

To realize the value of one minute, ask the people who has missed the train, bus or plane

(Betapa berartinya waktu selama satu menit bisa kita tanyakan pada orang yg tertinggal kereta api, bis ato pesawat terbang)

To realize the value of one second, ask a person who has survived an accident

(Untuk menyadari bertapa bernilainya waktu satu detik, tanyalah pada orang yang baru selamat dari sebuah kecelakaan)

To realize the value of one millisecond, ask the person who has won a silver medal in the Olympics

(Betapa berharganya waktu selama se per sekian mili detik jika kita tanyakan ini pada orang yang baru memenangkan medali perak pada sebuah lomba olimpiade, sedang dia inginkan medali emas)

Time waits for no one....

(Waktu takkan menunggu kita, kita yang telah menyia-nyiakan waktu yang ada)

Treasure every moment you have. You will treasure it even more when you can share it with someone special

(Taklukkan dan perlakukan dengan tepat tiap waktu yang kita miliki, termasuk saling berbagi dengan orang-orang yang istimewa)

To realize the value of a friend, lose one.

(Untuk menyadari nilai seorang sahabat, cobalah rasakan saat kita kehilangan sahabat kita)

The origin of this letter is unknown, But it brings good luck to everyone who passes it on.

(Ke sahih an surat ini tidak diketahui, namun menentukan keberhasilan kita saat kita berhasil melakukannya dalam dunia nyata...)

Love all, serve all

"Poverty is the mother of crime."

Marcus Aurelius Antoninus (121-180AD)

Roman Emperor, Philosopher

And.... it is absolutely true......

People were created to be loved.

Things were created to be used.

The reason why the world is in chaos,

is because things are being loved

& people are being used