Kelly Clarkson : What doesn't kill you make you stronger

You know the bed feels warmer
Sleeping here alone
You know I dream in color
And do the things I want

You think you got the best of me
Think you've had the last laugh
Bet you think that everything good is gone

Think you left me broken down
Think that I'd come running back
Baby you don't know me, cause you're dead wrong

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone

What doesn't kill you makes a fighter
Footsteps even lighter
Doesn't mean I'm over 'cause you're gone

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stronger
Just me, myself and I

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone

You heard that I was starting over with someone new
They told you I was moving on over you
You didn't think that I'd come back
I'd come back swinging
You try to break me
But you see...

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone

What doesn't kill you makes a fighter
Footsteps even lighter
Doesn't mean I'm over 'cause you're gone

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stronger
Just me, myself and I

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller

Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone

Thanks to you I got a new thing started
Thanks to you I'm not the brokenhearted
Thanks to you I'm finally thinking 'about me
You know in the end the day you left was just my beginning
In the end...

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone

What doesn't kill you makes a fighter
Footsteps even lighter
Doesn't mean I'm over 'cause you're gone

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stronger
Just me, myself and I

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stronger
Just me, myself and I

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone

Seven Rules of Life

1. Make peace with your past, so it wont screw up the present.... Berdamai dg masa lalu, meski terkadang menyakitkan... maka, kenangan itu takkan lagi melukaimu, malah menjadi makin bijak....

2. What others think of you is none of your business.... Apa yg menjadi persepsi org lain ttg dirimu, bukan urusanmu.

3. Time heals almost everything, give it time.... Waktu terkadang dapat sangat membantu, maka, berilah waktu bagi siapa pun dan apa pun. Terkadang, ga baik terlalu saklek / kaku...

4.Don't compare your life to others and don't judge them. You've no idea what their journey is all about. (Jangan bandingkan hidupmu dg org lain ato menghakimi org lain. Kita ga pernah tahu apa yg dia alami)

5.Stop thinking too much, it's allright not to know the answer. They will come to you when you least expect it. Jangan berpikir dan berharap berlebihan. Kadang, kita ga perlu jawaban. Akan tiba saat yg tepat.

6. No one is in charge of your happines, except you..... Tidak ada orang yg bertanggungjawab atas kebahagiaanmu kecuali dirimu sendiri.....

7. Smile.... You don't own all the problems in the world. Tersenyumlah...... Bukan cuma kamu di dunia ini yang punya masalah.

 

 

 

My Wife doesn't work

My Wife DOES NOT WORK !!!

Conversation between a Husband (H) and a Psychologist (P):

P : What do you do for a living Mr. Bandy?
H : I work as an Accountant in a Bank.

P : Your Wife ?
H : She doesn't work. She's a Housewife only.

P : Who makes breakfast for your family in the morning?
H : My Wife, because she doesn't work.

P : At what time does your wife wake up for making breakfast?
H : She wakes up at around 5 am because she cleans the house first before making breakfast.

P : How do your kids go to school?
H : My wife takes them to school, because she doesn't work.

P : After taking your kids to school, what does she do?
H : She goes to the market, then goes back home for cooking and laundry. You know, she doesn't work.

P : In the evening, after you go back home from office, what do you do?
H : Take rest, because i'm tired due to all day works.

P : What does your wife do then?
H : She prepares meals, serving our kids, preparing meals for me and cleaning the dishes, cleaning the house then taking kids to bed.

Whom do you think works more, from the story above???

The daily routines of your wives commence from early morning to late night. That is called 'DOESN'T WORK'??!!

Yes, Being Housewives do not need Certificate of Study, even High Position, but their ROLE/PART is very important!

Appreciate your wives. Because their sacrifices are uncountable. This should be a reminder and reflection for all of us to understand and appreciate each others roles.

All about a WOMAN ....

• When she is quiet, millions of things are running in her mind.

• When she stares at you, she is wondering why she loves you so much in spite of being taken for granted.

• When she says I will stand by you, she will stand by you like a rock.

Never hurt her or take her wrong or for granted...
Forward to every woman to make her smile and to every man to make him realize a woman's worth...!!!

My Student is getting hurt

He sad, so sad......
B'coz his girl friend gone,
and don't wanna come back again

Ah.....
My dear.

At some points.....
You have to realize,
that some people can stay in your heart,
but not in your life.......



Some people you care about may be very damaged. 

So, the only way for you to stay mentally healthy 

is to love them from a distance.

It definitely is a broken heart, 

but at least there is hope 

it can one day be a healthy heart again.

Friendship

Friendship is a special things.....
That comes straight from the heart
It reaches out in many ways
To tenderly impart

A loving thought, a caring words
The touch of love that heals
The miracle of friendship
Is the heart that is reveals

A cup of coffee and a chat
Can get one through the day
Just a smile from warm,
Gives more than word can say......

Friendship is a blessed thing
A gift sent straight from God
It winds around your heart
Because it grows from heavenly sod.....

David J. Pollay : The Garbage Truck

How often do you let other people/s nonsense change your mood?? Do you let a bad driver, rude waiter, curt boss, or an insensitive employee ruin your day?  However, the mark of a succesfull  person is how quickly one can get back their focus on what’s important. 

David J. Pollay explain his story in this way…… Sixteen years ago l learned this lesson.  I learned it in the back of a New York city taxi cab. Here’s  what happened. I hopped in a taxi, and we took off for Grand Central Situation. We were driving in the right lane when, all of a sudden, a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his breaks, skidded, and missed the other car’s  back end by just inches !! The driver of the other car, the guy who almost caused  a big accident,  whipped his head around and he started yelling bad words at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy.  And I mean….. he was friendly. So, l said, “Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital?”  And this is when my taxi driver told me what l now call The Law of The Garbage Truck”.

“Many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointed. As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it. And if you let them, they’ll dump it on you.  When someone wants to dump on you, don’t take it personally. You just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on.  You’ll be happy you did”.

I started thinking, how often do l let garbage trucks run right over me” and how often do l take their garbage and spread it to other people: at home, at work, on the street? It was that day l said, “I’m not going to do it anymore”.

Life’s too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. Love the people who treat you right. Forget about the ones who don’t. Believe that anything happens for a reason.  Never let The Garbage Truck run over you……   

I Lose Control

Be selective in your battles, sometimes peace is better than being right
My father told me at that day...... Ah. You always right, Dad, and right now, I miss you so much.......

When heart speaks and heart listens, harmony is produced. It is always so. When head talks and head listens, argument is produced.

 
Loyalty means believing in the continuity of commitment. Responsibility, dedication and commitment are the limbs of loyalty.

We have this ability, but we have forgotten to listen from our heart. That is why we are tense and worried and dull and dry. We feel dry in life. The joy comes when we can listen from our heart.

And, I cry, lay down here lonely....... hear Scorpion band sing this song: You and I
 



I lose control because of you babe
I lose control when you look at me like this
There's something in your eyes that is saying tonight
I'm not a child anymore, life has opened the door

To a new exciting life
I lose control when I'm close to you babe
I lose control don't look at me like this
There's something in your eyes, is this love at first sight

Like a flower that grows, life just wants you to know
All the secrets of life
It's all written down in your lifelines
It's written down inside your heart

You and I just have a dream
To find our love a place, where we can hide away
You and I were just made
To love each other now, forever and a day



I lose control because of you babe
I lose control don't look at me like this
There's something in your eyes that is saying tonight
I'm so curious for more just like never before

In my innocent life
It's all written down in your lifelines
It's written down inside your heart
You and I just have a dream

To find our love a place, where we can hide away
You and I were just made
To love each other now, forever and a day
Time stands still when the days of innocence

Are falling for the night
I love you girl I always will
I swear I'm there for you
Till the day I die

You and I just have a dream
To find our love a place, where we can hide away
You and I were just made
To love each other now, forever and a day

Every Body Need Hugs

No matter who you are, you need one
no matter what you do, you want one
No matter if you are uptight or smug
everybody needs a hug

Even if you are up or even if you’re down
even if you’re flat on the ground
Even if you feel like you’ve got some kind of bug
everybody needs a hug

Maybe you’re a millionaire
or maybe you have no underwear
Maybe your life sucks and your beer is full of suds
maybe you just need some hugs

When you can’t seem to get around
when you have to look up to see down
When all you have to eat is one small spud
sounds like it’s time for a hug

If you’ve been dragged over the coals
if life is taking it’s toll
If you’re being chased by a thug
just open your arms and give him a hug

Sometimes people are very rude
just because they’re in a bad mood
You should get up close and snug
Then reach out and give their ass a hug

When everyday all you see is bad omens
when life keeps feeding you lemons
When for the things you are owed, you never get paid
Just give a hug and say it's all paid.

To all who try to find love.......

To all who try to find love.......

If you find yourself in love with someone
and that someone doesn't love you
be gentle to yourself
there is nothing wrong with you
love just didn't choose to rest in that someone's heart

If you find someone fall in love with you
and you cannot answer that love
feel honored that love came by
and called on your door
but gently refuse the feeling you cannot return
as love didn't choose to settle in your heart

If you find yourself in love with someone
and the love returned
it still can happen that love chooses to leave
do not try to reclaim it
and do not assess any blame
let it go........
despite the pain,
there is the reason and meaning for this

You cannot choose love by yourself
Love chooses you

What Love is

‘’Love is what we were born with.  Fear is what we learned here.’’  (Cinta adalah sesuatu yg membuat kita terlahir dan ada di dunia ini.... ) Marianne Williamson.

LOVE BEGINS WITH YOU: Your inner voice is where your story of love begins: It is hard to feel worthy of love if someone is criticizing you all the time and especially if that someone is talking in your head. (Cinta berawal dari diri sendiri dimana kisah cinta berawal. Tak mungkin merasakan betapa berharganya cinta bila seseorang selalu mengkritisi, mencela, mencacimu sepanjang waktu, khususnya bila orang tersebut selalu terngiang2 di benakmu)

True love isn’t about being inseparable; it’s about two people being true to each other even when they are separated. (Cinta sejati bukanlah mengenai mereka yang tidak terpisahkan, namun mengenai orang yang menjadi sujati satu sama lain meski mereka terpisahkan jarak, ruang dan waktu....)

Love and kindness is a way of living.  Where there is love, there is no judgment.  Where there is judgment, there is no love. (Cinta dan kebaikan adalah jalan kehidupan. Dimana ada cinta, tak kan ada penghakiman. Dimana terdapat penghakiman, takkan ada cinta)

Love is the great transformer,  the greatest medicine to heal the whole world. (Cinta adalah transformator terbesar, obat mujarab yang menyembuhkan seluruh dunia)

Love is something you and I must have.  We must have it because our spirit feeds upon it. (Cinta adalah sesuatu yang harus kita miliki, karena cinta kasih adalah modal dari semangat kehidupan)

Love is the greatest healing power of all. (Cinta adalah obat mujarab bagi semua yang ada)

Love fuels passion, hope and desire. It generates creativity giving us purpose and making us feel alive.

 All your love matters and makes a difference. (Cinta melahirkan gairah, harapan dan keinginan. Menghadirkan kreativitas bagi semangat menggapai tujuan dan membuat kita sungguh-sungguh merasakan kehidupan ini....)

 Love is accepting others as they are, allow them to be themselves and stop trying to change them. (Cinta berarti menerima seseorang apa adanya, membiarkan mereka menjadi diri mereka sendiri, dan kita tidak membuatnya berkembang seperti apa yg kita mau, keinginan kita dan harapan kita sendiri)

From  Neale Donald Walsch, in his best-selling series Conversations With God, he shared one of the most profound solutions to any challenge you may ever be faced with. He gives us one of the most powerful 5-word questions you will ever hear. This is a question that you can ask yourself if you ever feel a need to react to someone else's unkind behavior. Here's the question: What would LOVE do now? (Neale Donald Walsch, dalam bukunya : Percakapan Dengan Tuhan, ia berbagi salah satu solusi yang paling mendalam untuk setiap tantangan yang mungkin pernah Anda hadapi. Dia memberi kita salah satu 5-kata pertanyaan yang paling sering kita dengar. Ini adalah pertanyaan yang dapat Anda tanyakan pada diri Anda jika Anda berhadapan dengan orang yang ber perilaku buruk. Berikut pertanyaannya: Apa yang akan dilakukan oleh CINTA sekarang?

You can ask this question the next time you feel challenged to respond or react to someone who, you feel, has wronged you. (Hal ini dapat anda lakukan, bertanya pada diri sendiri, tentang.... Apa yang akan dilakukan oleh CINTA sekarang? setiap kali mendapatkan tantangan untuk memberikan reaksi terhadap orang yang berperilaku buruk pada mu)

You see, love truly is ALL THERE IS. The Beatles sang.

Love is the path of joy. Love is the building block of life. Love takes the form of thoughts, words and deeds. Choosing love is like exercising any muscle. The more it is repeated, the easier it becomes. (Cinta adalah jalan kebahagiaan. Cinta adalah balok yang menjadi fondasi bangunan kehidupan kita semua. Cinta juga yang membentuk pikiran, perkataan dan perbuatan. Memilih cinta adalah seperti berolahraga otot apapun. Semakin hal ini diulang, semakin mudah) Karina Loureiro.

Josh Groban : You Raise Me Up.

When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;
When troubles come and my heart burdened be;
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
Until you come and sit awhile with me.
(Tatkala aku terjatuh, dan jiwaku melemah,
ketika masalah datang menghampiri dan hatiku terguncang,
dan, aku terduduk, menanti dalam diam terpaku,
hingga akhinya Dikau tiba dan duduk di sampingku)

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.
(Dikau mengangkatku, menopangku, hingga aku dapat berdiri di puncak gunung,
Dikau mengangkatku, menopangku, hingga aku dapat berdiri menentang badai,
Aku menjadi tangguh, kala aku di bahuMu,
Kau mengangkatku.... hingga aku dapat menjadi lebih baik lagi dari yang kubisa)

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.
(Dikau mengangkatku, menopangku, hingga aku dapat berdiri di puncak gunung,
Dikau mengangkatku, menopangku, hingga aku dapat berdiri menentang badai,
Aku menjadi tangguh, kala aku di bahuMu,
Kau mengangkatku.... hingga aku dapat menjadi lebih baik lagi dari yang kubisa)

There is no life - no life without its hunger;
Each restless heart beats so imperfectly;
But when you come and I am filled with wonder,
Sometimes, I think I glimpse eternity.
(Takkan pernah ada hidup tanpa rasa lapar itu sendiri,
setiap detak jantung yang menghentak gelisah gundah gulana,
namun, tatkala Engkau tiba, daku dikuasai sepenuh takjub,
terkadang, aku berpikir, inikah keabadian semu belaka?)

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.
(Dikau mengangkatku, menopangku, hingga aku dapat berdiri di puncak gunung,
Dikau mengangkatku, menopangku, hingga aku dapat berdiri menentang badai,
Aku menjadi tangguh, kala aku di bahuMu,
Kau mengangkatku.... hingga aku dapat menjadi lebih baik lagi dari yang kubisa)

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.
(Dikau mengangkatku, menopangku, hingga aku dapat berdiri di puncak gunung,
Dikau mengangkatku, menopangku, hingga aku dapat berdiri menentang badai,
Aku menjadi tangguh, kala aku di bahuMu,
Kau mengangkatku.... hingga aku dapat menjadi lebih baik lagi dari yang kubisa)

You raise me up... To more than I can be.