Friends

Friends give us the courage to lift the blinds on our hearts
to open up and show what we generally
keep hidden from the rest of the world

Friends put a smile on our faces
and a spring in our steps

Friends give us security in knowing our secrets
will be protected and will not be broadcast from the rooftops

Friends make each day a new beginning
filled with wonder and joy

Friends put laughter in our hearts
after we have been overwhelmed by grief

Friends give us the inspiration
to reach for our dreams

The 7 Habits of Man & Woman

Vijay post this to me....


Men:

1. All men are extremely busy.
2. Although they are so busy, they still have time for women.
3. Although they have time for women, they don't really care for them.
4. Although they don't really care for them, they always have one around.
5. Although they always have one around them, they always try their luck with others.
6. Although they try their luck with others, they get really pissed off if the women leaves them.
7. Although the women leaves them they still don't learn from their mistakes and still try their luck with others.


Women:

1. The most important thing for a woman is financial security.
2. Although this is so important, they still go out and buy expensive clothes.
3. Although they always buy expensive clothes, they never have something to wear.
4. Although they never have something to wear, they always dress beautifully.
5. Although they always dress beautifully, their clothes are always just "An old rag".
6. Although their clothes are always "just an old rag", they still expect you to compliment them.
7. Although they expect you to compliment them, when you do, they don't believe you

A Special Friend

A friend is someone special
who can stand inside your shoes
feel your joy and sadness
not judge you or accuse...

Someone you can sit with
not uttering a word.
but knowing in your silence
there is nothing to be heard

To have a friend such as this
is something very rare
Cherish this special someone
with tender.....
Loving care


In life,
we all have an unspeakable secret,
an irreversible regret,
an unreachable dream,
and .....
an unforgettable love."

Lean On Me

Seseorang berkata "Ketika dia pergi, aku merasa mati". Hmmm. Ingatlah ketika cintamu mati maka kau tak perlu mati utk cinta itu. Hidup terlalu indah untuk selalu disesali dan ditangisi. Berhenti menyesali masa lalu, mereka telah berlalu. Yg penting adalah saat ini, jangan sampai kesalahan yg sama terulangi.

When we keep a sense of revenge, then we will not feel what is actually happening. And if too long, our hearts will be severe (Arief). A friend is someone who accepts your past, supports your present and encourages your future.

Persahabatan sejati dapat mendorong melalui masa-masa berat dalam hidup. Dan, ingat selalu... Menjadi tua itu pasti, tapi menjadi dewasa dan bijak adalah pilihan.

Hmmm, sambil kerja dan menikmati lagu

Lean On Me, by Michael Bolton

Sometimes in our lives,

we all have pain....

we all have sorrow....

But if we are wise...

we know that there's

always..... tomorrow !

Please swallow your pride

If I have things

you need to borrow for,

no one can fill

those of your needs

that you won't let show...

You just call on me...

when you need a hand

We all need somebody

to lean on

I just might have a problem

that you'll understand

we all need somebody to lean on

Lean on me

when you're not strong

I'll be your friend

I'll help you carry on

for it won't be long

Till I'm gonna need

somebody to lean on

If there is a load

that you have to bear...

that you can't carry

I'm right up the road

I'll' share your load

If you just call me

My Friends...

Don't count your age
by the years you have known
But by the friends you have made
and the kindness sown.
For life is not measured
by the years you live
but by the deeds you do
and the joys you give




Jangan pernah mengukur usia
dari tahun demi tahun yang pernah kita lalui
Namun dari jalinan persahabatan yang telah kita buat
dan kebajikan yang kita tebar....
Karena, hidup bukanlah suatu ukuran
dari berapa banyak tahun terlampaui,
namun dari kebajikan dan kebahagiaan
yang telah kita bagi pada orang lain

My Heart....

My heart is like an open book
For everyone to see
All the people that I meet
Who means so much to me
(Hatiku.... bagai sebuah buku yang terbuka
Bisa terlihat lembaran demi lembarannya
untuk dibaca tiap orang

Berbicara mengenai tiap peristiwa dan orang yang kujumpai
yang begitu sungguh berarti bagiku......)

There isn't a day that passes by
That I don't try to say
Hello my friend how are you
Have a wonderful day
(Gak ada satu hari pun yang terlewatkan
Dimana ga coba kukatakan dan kuungkapkan
"Apa khabar sobatku,
Semoga hari-harimu menyenangkan....")

Life is much too precious
And much too short you know
Today I wish you blessings
Wherever you may go
(Hidup sungguh berharga
dan terlalu singkat untuk dipahami
Hari ini kuberdoa berharap berkah berlimpah bagi mu semua.....
Dimana pun kalian berada)